What if there’s no one else out there? It’s so hard to even fathom that. Even though we meet new people, we can’t find someone who matches up. We don’t believe we can ever find someone like him/her.What should we do instead then? In the end, some of us choose to linger around, hoping it’ll eventually lead to a positive place. Such confusing behavior, such conflicting actions. Then when we try to move on, he/she suddenly tries to get closer. When we try to get closer, he/she shys away. The other party is giving mixed signals.Based on your comments, it would seem many of you are caught in the same situation too. This led me to think there was something more. Behavior that spills over the domain of friendship. Behavior that’s more romantic than platonic. The other party is giving ambiguous, misleading signals.They feel it’s much easier to believe in the faith of their ex-es than admit to themselves that their boyfriends don’t treasure their relationship that much. Some of my friends keep returning to ex-es who treated them badly or cheated on them in the past. So to make things easier, we continue to live in our false reality. Sometimes the truth is more than we can take. It wasn’t until the situation reached the same dead end for the third time that I finally realized that it was time to move on for good.Īs I look back and as I look around friends who have been or are currently in similar situations, I realize that there are common reasons as to why we can’t / don’t move on:
Some of us logically know that we should move on - yet we linger on anyway.įor me, even though I had concluded in 2005 that I had to move on with G, I was still circling in a loop in 2006, and again in 2008, because the circumstances in each time gave me the impression that it would be different this time round. Part 5: 10 Steps To Move On From a Relationshipįunny as it may be, most of the time we aren’t even aware that we need to move on from a relationship until it becomes evident.Part 4: Top 12 Signs It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship.Part 3: How I Moved On From a Heartbreak – Part 3: Forgiveness, Closure and Moving On.Part 2: How I Moved On From a Heartbreak – Part 2: Heartbreak and Sadness.Part 1: How I Moved On From a Heartbreak – Part 1: My Journey With Love.
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